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  • Perhaps it’s time to find better hobbies? It’s a chore and difficult because you don’t know what you like/don’t like before you try it for some time.

    Independent of finding girls it’s also good for your own psyche to get away from the screen. And if it has to be gaming perhaps you can find people who are into board games?





  • Jeena@piefed.jeena.nettoAsklemmy@lemmy.mlHow useless are dating apps?
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    6 days ago

    It depends. For years I had either no or bad matches at home, always the same people showing up there, etc…

    But then one day while on a business trip abroad I installed a new app, payed the fee (for some reason, normally I never did) and matched with the most amazing person who made me move half way across the globe for her and now almost four years later we still live together, have a 1.5 years old son and plan finally to marry (there were some practical problems we had to fix first).

    For me it worked out, but that’s survival bias I guess.










  • I’m just a vehicle to my genes which they use to travel to the future. They only can travel when they have a suitable host who can reproduce them and can make sure that the next version has the best chances to reproduce again. So over time natural selection optimized for the vehicles to want to reproduce. Everyone who didn’t have the desire to have kids in the past has none (other than rape victims) to move their genes forward.

    Anyway this is a extreme oversimplification of the whole idea of The Selfish Gene