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Cake day: July 3rd, 2023

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  • When I was a teen I worked as a waiter at a dirty smokehouse/bbq place.

    One of the kitchen staff there would make sexual comments about me. Say things like “You’re lucky you look good because you’re so stupid.” And would ask what kind of underwear I was wearing.

    I told my parents about it, and the advice they gave me was “Deal with it. You need a job.”

    Within a month that kitchen staff member had started to grab me and sexually assaulted me.

    I don’t talk to my parents anymore.








  • Hate towards beiefs is fine, and I think you’d even agree with that. Would you agree it’s bad to believe that a subset groups of people should be removed from the world? I would hope you agree that that is a bad belief and doesn’t need to be accepted.

    But it’s also missing the point. Being gay isn’t a belief, it’s just the way someone is - just like race, just like gender. It’s not a belief like a political stance is.

    They’re two different things and it’s not hypocritical to treat them differently.